Billy & Sarah Gaines - That Is Why

This is one of my favorite videos.  Maybe because this video possesses so much history for me.
It is dear to my soul.  Billy & Sarah Gaines, my handsome uncle and my lovely sweet aunt.  I hold both of them dear to my heart.

The song says, "That is Why," have you thought about why you love your spouse?  Have you taken the time to appreciate the gifts and talents that your spouse offers, shares, as well as contributes to your life.

Our lives are full, maybe we all need to take more time to appreciate one another more.  Maybe, we need to take a break from the daily grind, the things that can so easily choke life, romance, love, gentleness and sensitivity out of us.  It pays to take time to say, "This is why I love you," and with that render words of life, exhortation, appreciation and thankfulness towards our covenant partner.

 Suggested Nuggetts

1. Make a list of things that you appreciate about your spouse and read it to him/her.

2. Take a dance class together.
3. Try something new as a couple.
4. Take him/her out for dinner.
5. Send him/her flowers.
6. Send him/her a card for several weeks (be selective).
7. Call him/her throughout the day just to say, I love you.
8. Ask him/her, do you need anything?

Romance & Love Making
They say men want more sex and woman want more romance (this means sometimes without sex, just cuddling). Well, there is a trade-off.  Men, if you want more sex I suggest you give more romance and render more cuddling.  Women, if you want more romance, maybe, you might want to try a little more love making.
We as husband and wives have to teach each other how to love us as individuals.  Only you know exactly what it is you need and what you want.  Right?

Men romance for some woman also starts with helping her around the house, with the kids, with family chores and errands.  A quiet woman doesn't always men a happy woman.

Women for your husband, sex is more than just a physical need. Lack of sex is as emotionally serious to him as, say his sudden silence would be to you, were he simply to stop communicating with you.  It is just as wounding to him, just as much as a legitimate grievance-and just as dangerous to your marriage. (~Shaunti Feldhahn-For Women Only~)

Beloved Sex is a gift for those of us who are married, let us handle it with care and enjoy this wonderful pleasure that the Father has blessed us with.  What a awesome consummation of oneness, only God could have created such a wonder.

Scripture Reference

7Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding. 8Exalt her, and she will promote you; She will bring you honor, when you embrace her. 9She will place on your head an ornament of grace; A crown of glory she will deliver to you. (Prov. 4:7-9)

Even in our marriage relationship we need wisdom, coupled with God's understanding.  We need to understand and consider that the male and the female are wired different.  However, that difference is for the good of the relationship.  We as husband and wives can respect and appreciate our differences, grow and build upon each of them as well.

Thanks again Beloved for stopping by.  We look forward to you visiting our next post! 

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Jeff &Penny
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